# 5: Cooking time: take the time 🕰
Talking, questioning, taking them one-on-one to lunch, taking an interest in them...
ANDn one word: CO-MMU-NI-QUER. It is by feeling loved and surrounded that they will be confident to open up and tell you what matters to them. 🙌
Don't forget that one day, it will be their turn... Since there is still a little time, we cling to this quote which sums up the situation rather well:👇
"Being a parent is often doing as you can, sometimes as you want, but always doing your best!" Source: needed!